Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Doug Hampton - Not Just A Hunt For A Doe


 How could just a hunt for a doe be responsible for such an emotional moment in a lifetime of hunting whitetails?  I will admit, it didn't make the most since to me either.  I was notnecessarily prepared or expecting it by any means.  I was simply sitting in my tree-stand waiting on the first light of a late October morning.  My mission was simple...  I needed to harvest a doe with a recurve bow, as part of the challenge for the first group hunt for Dream Season 'The Journey'.  I had no clue that months later I would not be able to talk to anyone about the hunt without tears coming to my eyes.

      What is hunting to most folks?  What does it mean to the average hunter?  How can just a doe hunt be so rewarding?   After having my personal best year of killing bucks, how can a doe with a recurve be what I think of the most?  I can't explain it, but I can tell you it's the truth.

      Hunting is so much to so many of us.  It truly becomes our way of life.  The people that influence us through hunting and sharing great memories are among our closest friends and relatives.  Hunting is a bond that can be felt  quicker than explained.  Two of my most influential people in my life were my brother and my grandfather, or 'Pappaw' to anyone in my family.  My brother was my hunting & fishing buddy.   He showed me the ropes of life and even led me to the Lord.

Pappaw saw to it that we became responsible ethical hunters.  He as well as my uncles really spent a lot of their valued time fooling with us.  Pappaw took my brother to kill his first deer when I was 4 years old.  I remember hearing the shot from 'behind the field'.  I ran out of the camp to wait for them coming down the old muddy road.  It wasn't long before I could see the blue Bronco creeping slowly with a small spike laying up on the hood.   I was so excited!  It was the first deer that I can ever remember seeing.  It also was the first moment that I knew I wanted to be a hunter.  A few years later, Pappaw pulled out an old recurve bow.  I believe I was 9 or 10 at the time, but after watching that first arrow hit the paper plate that I was shooting at, I knew I wanted to be a bowhunter.  Later that evening I crawled into an old box-stand about 10 feet off the ground.  Pappaw handed me that recurve and 2 arrows with broadheads.  He instructed me to be safe and he would be back later.  After about an hour, I saw him returning to pick me up.  I quickly waived him back so that I could keep hunting.  Now I had not seen hide nor hair, but I knew I was bowhunting, and I knew I liked it!

         As life flew past me, my brother was killed when I was 13 years old.  He was a few months shy of graduating high school when he was taken from us.  Pappaw would drive from Arkansas to Texas to pick me up and take me back, just so I could hunt.  He knew it was my therapy for dealing with the loss.  He did that for the next few years until I could drive there on my own.  In the year 2000, he was diagnosed with stomach cancer.  After months of fighting, he went to be with my brother.

         As I sat waiting for the daylight to overtake the darkness, I looked at the recurve that I was going to attempt to take a doe with.  I don't consider myself to be an overly emotional guy.  Passionate maybe, but not emotional.  But something about looking down at that recurve began to take me back to that first time I bowhunted.  The memories of  Pappaw handing me the bow and the memories of waiving him back began to hit me.  I thought of my brother and how he had told me that one day he'd be watching me shoot deer on television.  It was just all too much to take in at one time.  The tears began to role down my face & their was no stopping them.  I was glad it was still dark.  T.J., one of the Drury production staff, was along to video for the hunt.  Rod was busy filming one of the contest winners from facebook.  I had only met T.J. just recently, and was hoping he didn't notice the moment that I unexpectedly having.  As soon as it was light enough to see, a doe was headed our way. She never offered me a good shot, so the opportunity to fill my tag had come, and then slipped by. The guide text me after a few hours and said he was on his way. After a minute or two, I text him back & "waived him off", the way I had Pappaw so many years before.  I was just enjoying the hunt.  Not long after, I caught movement of a huge doe coming my way feeding on acorns.  After a few minutes she was heading straight at our tree.  She would cross in front at 15 yards.  I drew the recurve and let the arrow fly.  There was blood immediately and by the way she was running, I knew she wasn't gonna last long. At about 70 yards, she went down on camera. I was once again overcome with emotion. I was so excited that I had accomplished what I had set out to do. I thought about Pappaw telling me to "enjoy your life, hunt all you can son".  Nobody ever said on their deathbed that they wish they had worked more. I can't remember a hunt of my own that meant quite as much as this one. Moments in my life that laid dormant, were suddenly brought back as if they had happened the day before.

       Now I'm just a southern country boy that God has granted some great wishes to.  He's given me an awesome family, great friends, and  made me lucky enough to close the deal on some great bucks over the past few years.  Dream Season 'The Journey' will begin airing in the coming weeks.  Most folks will watch this hunt and never know the significance to me of this particular hunt.  The raw emotion that I felt through that entire day may never be matched again.  The bonds that have been made with my loved ones and friends through hunting areirreplaceable.  I can't wait to re-live this hunt when it airs.  I'll probably have tears in my eye's yet again.  It's my most anticipated hunt to watch, and it's not even a buck.  With my heart and soul I can honestly say, this was not just a hunt for a doe. I still can't explain it, but it sure was special.

4 comments:

Unknown said...

Doug,
Your story about harvesting a beautiful doe filled my heart as I continued to read through your story. I am touched by the fact that finally a man has something great to say about harvesting a doe instead of a buck. I could also relate as I just lost my only hunting buddy this past March 2012; my brother...Doug. He was only 43 when he received his wings to the good heavens above.

As I have spent many weekend preparing my Ohio lease this year, the tears have streamed down my face in the car, walking the property, and even hanging my stands this past weekend. I have his ashes in a silver bullet urn that I wear around my neck when I do anything for hunting. When I'm not preparing my property or my camera equipment for hunting, the necklace urn goes back around the mirror of my brothers Dodge Ram 1500 that I had to keep because all our hunting memories and drives up north took place in his truck.

I miss him so much and it pains me to not be able to call him with the excitement about this coming year. I've ventured out, as a female hunter, on my own to experience leasing property for the first time. He'd be so proud of me. I hung four stands and put up two pop ups and scouted all on my own. I love him, I miss him...my hunting buddy, my brother...Doug.

Thank you for sharing your amazing story, God Bless you and your family, and finally congrats on the majestic Doe!

Christine Bouford
christine@doe-gear.com

Unknown said...

Doug,
I was so moved by your blog that I just had to write you. First of all congrats on your harvest! It is so refreshing to hear a guy talk highly of harvesting a doe.

As I continued to read, I couldn't believe that you had lost your hunting buddy, your brother. This past March, I lost my hunting buddy, my brother and his name was Doug.

I miss him so much but as he would want me to, I've persevered and have done some things for my upcoming hunting season that no sole female that I know of has. For the first time, I have leased hunting property in Ohio. I hung 4 sets on my own along with 2 pop ups and scouted the property for past sign.

Though my bro wasn't with me, I wore his ashes around my neck in a silver bullet urn I got, as that was his style. When I wasn't preparing for hunting the necklace and urn went back around the mirror of his Dodge Ram 1500 Quad Cab that him and I shared so many of our outdoor memories in. Yes, I kept the truck as that is the last and only thing I have that represents him physically.

I have never cried so much in my life as I have these past four months; crying while driving to the property, crying while hanging stands, and tears were streaming as I walked the property alone without him by my side.

Thanks for sharing your story because it helps me believe that life truly goes on and I will be blessed with great memories ahead. My brother Doug will be with me around my neck this fall and I will talk to him as I'm out there alone enjoying God's beautiful landscapes and most awesome harvest, the Whitetail Deer.

God bless and again, congrats on your harvest.

Sincerely,
Christine Bouford
christine@doe-gear.com

Unknown said...

thats what its all about totally awesome story !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Unknown said...

what a awesome story when i see that episode im gonna forsure do the same this is what it is all about great family friends and the outdoors!!!!!!!!!!!